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Jessica Shea's avatar

Speaking as a Christian, conservative(ish), feminist(ish) woman, I find evolutionary mismatch intriguing because it validates my intuition (shared by many others, I gather) that there is something spiritually damaging about modernity, as we have strayed far from the lives we were created to live. As I believe God created us through evolution, my intuition and the concept of "evolutionary mismatch" are saying pretty much the same thing. I have also found motherhood to be the era of my life that has been the most rich with spiritual growth and that growth has only increased as I have embraced more of a hunter-gatherer mindset, as I understand it.

I really appreciate your non-ideological, thoughtful approach to such interesting questions!

Lauren Akin's avatar

This piece also has me thinking about the relational harm of modernity. Like, evolutionary mismatch being proportional to the unchecked relational harm of "progress". Sometimes I feel like I'm waking up out of a trance when I actually dare to trace my phone back to its origins and reckon with the layer upon layer of extractive harm it required in order for it to exist. I don't believe it's possible to live harmlessly, but I believe modernity is designed to hide relational harm in service to ease, a certain kind of safety, and the pursuit of a frictionless existence. And also the arrogance of thinking that our species is equipped to "fix" anything here! Today's problems are yesterday's solutions and all that. It's the solutionism that gets to me most, across the whole political spectrum. As a mother, I long for the conditions that would make some kind of "motherhood-flow" possible. I want this way more than I want distinct solutions to distinct problems. But, I think creating the conditions for "motherhood-flow" is much less profitable than creating solutions for motherhood problems. Collective allegiance and devotion to "solutions" is the best thing any empire that fuels itself through extraction could hope for. I am inspired by any culture that doesn't organize itself around solving problems, but instead organizes itself around relational integrity (which will necessarily be imperfect). This is actually the opposite of Utopia! Wow, this is the first time I've posted here and I really rambled. I super appreciate your substack Elena!

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